“Phil”

A number of guys work with me.  Jesse is my “main man” but a bunch of different guys work with us.  One of the guys who has been working with me for a while is named Adam.  I call him Phil.  I am not really sure why I call him that, but I do.  He doesn’t seem to mind.  He laughs that I call him this without a problem.  Phil and Chris (an intern who no longer works there) were working out my legs and stretching me on a table.  They take turns with either one of my legs.  When they are not working with me; they sit in my wheelchair because I am on the table.  It was September 30, 2013 when Phil asked if we (Chris and me) saw that Guinness commercial with the wheelchairs.  I hadn’t so Phil pulls it up on his phone.  I am laying on the table as Chris is stretching me out and I watch the commercial.  Being in a wheelchair and having been for a while, I feel my eyes well up with tears because I am effected by the commercial.  It is a GREAT commercial!  Almost makes me want to drink Guinness.  I was wearing mascara that day so I had to carefully wipe away the tears that were threatening to fall out of my eyes.  I may not have been fast enough in wiping my right eye.  Phil says, “Aww!  You’re crying!  Aww!”  I tell him emphatically that I am not and I am a little bit embarrassed because I really was crying – almost.

My favorite story regarding Phil is one where it was a Wednesday.  Jesse had already deemed it “Walking Wednesday” and I am not sure what the weather was like (it affects me).  For example, my legs hurt more and are more stiff in the rain.  I was a little bit stiff and since it was Wednesday, I would be walking so I looked at Phil and said “warm it up Kris.”  He looked at me questioningly and said, “I’m not Chris.”  I laughed!  Now, Phil is only 23 years old.  I am 31 like Jesse (but I AM older than him by a month and a half).  I explained to Phil that in the early ’90s there was a rap duo named Kris Kross.  I was explaining what they sang and I told Jesse, “warm it up, Kris” as he is walked by and he says “I’m about to” and I come back with, “warm it up, Kris” and he says, “that’s what I was born to do.”  I looked at Phil as if to say, “see?!”  He shakes his head and jokingly says that he is not old like me and Jesse.

On October 7, 2013 I had training.  I do not keep my phone on me so when I was done (and SO tired) I checked my phone for messages.  I get a text that my son was transported to the ER from football practice.  I look at Phil and ask if he can get me to the car.  FAST!  He pushes my chair out to my car and I stand up and scramble into my car.  He gets my chair into my car topper so I can leave quickly.  I race to the ER where I think he is.  I’m almost there when my Mom calls to tell me he is at a different ER.  I have to back track but I get there.  He got a concussion at practice and was not immediately coherent.  Once everything is finally taken care of, my son is okay, and I have a second to breathe.  I realize how tired my legs are.  I had to explain to Phil that I was powered by pure maternal adrenaline.  That was why I got into my car so quickly.  It wasn’t because I wasn’t giving my ALL at training.  He refers to that day as “the day I got up and walked to my car.”  I’ll do ANYTHING for my son!

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Here is a picture of Phil.  He didn’t want me to take it.  On this day, it was a Monday and I wore these socks because I didn’t match the socks I just washed the night before.  It was obvious these socks matched so I grabbed them.  Larry told me that it looks like I have “Lollipop Kid” socks on.