Month: June 2023

The Eve of ‘Go-Time’

My mind is full and I am not sleeping because this right now is the eve of ‘go-time’. This month’s ‘go-time’ just consists of one day. There is a two-fer on that one day though. I see Dr. Clark, my naturopath, at 3 o’clock and then at 5:30. We are getting our haircut (and I am getting my eyebrows waxed) at 5:30.

I have been playing the day’s plans over and over again in my mind so I have everything straight. I think that I have finally figured out the proper way to successfully complete go-time.’

March was exceptionally difficult for me and that was when we got my state ID. I had a really hard time that month! That’s when I decided to re-calibrate how I handle it these days. I had to segment my days. With all of my disease progression in these 22+ years, sadly, my brain does not work as it used to.

I’ve had to space out paying my bills after I receive my disability check and I I plan my appointments months in advance. I had this calendar year scheduled in April.

I am a nerd! I have no problem with that! And because I am not sleeping and I saw this video minutes after I woke up and I was trying to get focused on being awake. This story startled me, and when I showed my Mom, the second she saw sister Wilhelmina, she said, “She’s from the order of the sisters of St. Joseph.”

When she said that, all the stories, my Parents told me about their grade school antics became clearer to me. Both of my Parents went to the same grade school in Detroit. Saint Anne’s and they were completely taught by nuns. This is how they dressed, and the story is speaking to my heart!!!:

Small

My uncle just drove my Mom to pick up the van for tomorrow’s ‘go time.’ It will only be a one day rental this month.

I have been grappling with this fact for a couple months now, but I think that I have finally accepted it.

My life is just small now. 22+ years in, my life is reduced to scheduling my doctors appointments and renting vans. I except that now. At least I am good at it. I can make schedules for everything and I have for this year. I had that completely scheduled back in April.

Last night, I asked my mom in disbelief, “ is this really all my life is made up of now?!” And the answer is just a simple, yes.

A Red Rubber Ball

I am having memories of hearing this song in the backseat of our station wagon! I’m not sure if my cousinT is with me or school friends but I remember hearing this song when my Mom would listen to 104.3.

The reason I thought of this song is because yesterday, I changed out my therapy putty. I first learned about therapy putty from one of my MS groups. I posed the question because I was quite concerned about my progressive hand strength loss..

I got the wonderful suggestion for therapy putty, and I bought some last year:

I quickly figured out that if I squeezed the putty for 17 minutes a day during an audio rosary, my hands feel a little bit better. So I had worked my way all the way up to extra firm. It’s red. But I started to notice that it was getting too soft and I needed new putty. I searched for and was able to get these:


I got this 2 pack in January. It was January 18 when I started using it so I knew I would have to change it out on June 18 which is what I did. This is what my therapy putty looked like after 17 minutes of squeezing it:


I think that it will take a couple months for it to soften with my daily,squeezing it for 17 minutes. To close it, I just smash my palm down on the top so I can close the container. That’s why I thought of that song because it looks like a red rubber ball!

#MyGirlL: Counterproductive?!

My Mom sent me this picture earlier today when she took Leia for a walk:

I looked at this picture and I asked my Mom, “Really?! You just gave her a shot yesterday!!!”

My Mom just gave her her next dose for her allergy shots. I reminded by Mom that we are paying for those shots. She’s allergic to grass, but my Mom says that she loves it so much and we love HER so much! but isn’t administering these shots counterproductive if she’s laying in the grass on her walks?!

I don’t think she needs another shot until next week…

Greek Mythology

I had this random memory yesterday and I have been trying to flesh it out since then! But my memories are where I live now and this is kind of a vague memory and at least 20 years since I taught this!

I think that it may have been my third year teaching English, and I needed to come up with an elective for one class of students. I think it had something to do with the schedule or something but I only taught this elective for one semester!

I think that my principal had all this information for me to run a Greek Mythology class. I remember he had books already and I went to Barnes and Noble.(because that was still there then) and I bought the same book that he had. I took it to Kinko’s and had them cut off the binding so I could make copies more easily for my students.

The memory I had yesterday was seeing Ana’s name in Greek on the back wall of my classroom. That was the first lesson that I gave them. I gave them all copies of the Greek alphabet and had them make an 11 x 14 poster of their name in Greek. I remember that I had printed larger fonts of the words that said, “It’s all Greek to us.” Ana’s name looked exactly the same! That was the first poster on the left.

I am going to be thinking about this for a long time, but I remember showing them The first Clash of the Titans. I remember having to have them get a permission slip signed because they were only in seventh grade! There is some nudity! I remember making a big deal about it when there was nudity. My kids laughed and I told them (the boys) to close their eyes!

I know that book without the binding has to be in one of my bins of my teaching things. I haven’t thought about that for a while! But I remember laughing with the movie because my kids thought it was so old because it was from the 1970s.

My Buggy Eye

My Mom took this picture last week I think. My Mom was taking a picture of my sweatshirt to send to my brother, and she noticed my eye. I told her that’s my buggy eye.

Let me ‘splain ya:

I was diagnosed with optic neuritis in right eye when I was about six months pregnant. That really didn’t matter because I had another eye. My left eye decided to join the optic neuritis party when Sean was about 10 I think.

I’ve had optic neuritis in both of my eyes for about a decade. I still wear my contacts, but I have to wear glasses to have a prism in front of my right eye. I call it my buggy eye:

Even with my contacts in and the prism in front of my eye, my right eye gets a little wonky and you can see that in the picture and it doesn’t feel good all the time!

“Better” OR 29 Years!

My Mom told me last night as we were getting ready for bed that I looked like I was feeling better. And today I actually feel better myself, but better is the suggestive term! I have been feeling bad since last Thursday when I had to go and get fitted for a new wheelchair.

The appointment was so early that that’s difficult to come back from and this crazy weather is not making me feel well at all, and I am just a mess!

But I am feeling better today and I actually wore my contacts. Putting my contacts in my eyes has gone through a lot of changes since I was 12. That’s when I started wearing them. But for the last 22 years, I have been dealing with disease progression and loss of control of my hands.

Sean remembers me popping my contacts out of my eyes with my long nails when he was young, but now my nails are cut down to the nubs so I don’t scratch my eyeball! Now, my Mom has to watch me put my contacts into my eye, and because I can’t control my hands that much.

It’s very deliberate where just hold the top of my eyelid open with my right hand use my left hand to pull my lower lid down, and I use my index finger to just move the contact close my eyeball and then it suctions onto it!

I would say in the past few months, I have figured it out. My contacts just pop into my eyes the first try! And when that happens, I just smile and close my eyes while my Mom gets my glasses for me to put on, and I tell her 29 years like I am singing a Kanye West song!:

DISASTER OR MORE than a Recovery Weekend

I have never been good at math at all! But I let my Mom know that I’m pretty sure that:

an early appointment + horrible weather = DISASTER!!!

Because it is!!! This has been going on for more than a month, but my body cannot figure out what season it is and therefore is feeling insane!

When I was up and seated in my living room, my Mom was walking toward me coming out of my room, and I just said, “My body has never felt like this before!” and I felt myself tear up. But all my Mom had to do was put her arms out and hug me and then it changed to full-blown shoulder shaking, and tears streaming down my cheeks!

I really wish that I would just bounce back already, but I did not even put my contacts in today either so it looks like it will be more than a recovery weekend…

Bob Ross OR Depressing

So, I am not sure why this is showing up in my feed, but it is, and then I will explain the chain of events that took place:

Thanking about it, I think I know how it happened! My Mom and I were talking about The Little Mermaid with Melissa McCarthy and now these videos are showing up on my phone. I think she’s hilarious and I have to watch them!

Wait. What?! There is a documentary produced by them on Bob Ross on Netflix?! I knew that I had to watch that! I have to explain to you first that I have not worn contacts since Thursday:

It took me all weekend to watch this documentary, and I watched it on my phone. I was reminded of watching PBS when I was home sick from school.

It was kind of a depressing story when it was all done… I hoped it would have ended better than it did…