Month: August 2019

Sean started his senior year today. After he got out of the shower and got dressed and ready for school, he came into my room where I was laying in bed still kind of groggy. Mornings are always rough for me as of late. I saw him walk into my doorway and I exclaimed, “The last, first day!” He smiled and gave me a hug and a kiss before he left for school. I remained in bed until my Mom came over to get me.

As Sean left, he told me that he loved me and I told him that I loved him too and to have a good day. I put Gavin Degraw on my phone and kind of dozed off until my Mom came over. This song that I posted yesterday is what I need these days.

As a laid there somewhere between sleep and wake, I thought about his first day of first grade at Divine Child. He is far removed from first grade and I know that I have pictures, I just have to find them. I didn’t take a first day picture today pbecause I was still in bed when he left but I’m really proud of him and the fact that he is in his last year of school.

I thought about my Dad and imagined what he would think of my baby now! I’m sure I will write about it soon but I can’t just yet. I called Sean when school was over just before he was on his way home and I let him know that his graduation party is 311 days away. He laughed and it warmed my heart.

It’s a rough day today and this song is getting me through.

Oh, Gavin! I want you to, “Take my pain” and be my, “Soldier,” for sure!

Last night, I think it was Anderson Cooper that I heard say, “Say it ain’t so!” I immediately thought of the summer when Sean was two. It was the summer he wore his rain boots with the handles every single day regardless of the weather because he really liked putting them on because he really liked putting them on by himself!

I even got him a second pair. He had a red pair originally and I think my Mom bought him a yellow pair for variety but mostly because my nephew liked wearing them also When he was at my Parents’ house. It was back when I was still an undergrad and we still lived with my Parents. It was the summer that I listened to this song in the car all of the time! I had it on a mixed CD are used to listen to.

That was this summer that he had just awakened in the morning in his crib that was in our room (It was really my bedroom growing up and I just moved his crib in when he was born). He sang, “Like father, step father!” I remember that making me laugh so much!

I thought that I had shared this song on my blog before and it took me searching through 17 pages of posts in the, “Tunes” tab of my blog on my phone. I was correct! I had posted it in my “February 2018 Faves.” Searching for that post, I realize that my blog is QUITE extensive now! I have 70 months of archives to sift through but I was able to narrow down the post easier since I started the, “Tunes” tab about five years ago.

That’s a whole lot of posts for me to search through and it makes me cringe that I have not properly edited a vast majority of these posts! I was just talking to my Mom about, “The summer Sean wore the rain boots every day“ yesterday and it made me laugh because it was SUPER cute!

I also remembered telling Adam about that summer when I was training at Barwis and Mike’s son came out of Mike’s office wearing the same boots but in green. He was about the age Sean was when Sean did this and I laughed and knew EXACTLY why he was doing it just like my baby had done so many years before!

After the search for the post that I had this song in, I found it and I knew I would! Of course I shared it; I LOVE that memory! I was glad that I had already shared it already. It took a long time for me to find but I LOVE that memory! I have been thinking about that summer since I heard Anderson Cooper say that yesterday night, and immediately thought of that song. I was pretty sure I already shared it because I am a pretty predictable person!

I swam competitively with the Dearborn Barracudas in the summers from when I was 5 or 6 to when I was 13. My young family were swimmers. We swam at Fordson high school.

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The starting blocks have changed in the past almost 25 years since I swam but I found a picture today to illustrate my point

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That picture shows how far from the edge of the pool the water level is. All I know is that by the end of practice, at about noon, my brothers and I were completely waterlogged! I have written before about my coaches Mr. Bill and Mr. Sykes. My brothers and I talked about this not too long ago and we figured out that we swam close to or just above 1000 laps in that pool a day.

Today, I had a memory that I hadn’t thought about in years. We ended every practice with sprints. I remember that there was an analog stopwatch on the wall and Mr. Bill would put his whistle into his mouth and tell us that we were to do, “25s on the :30.”

The pool was 25 yards in length. We were to swim 25 yards or the length of the pool in 30 seconds. Often times, he would add the caveat that at the end lof their lap, we were to, “Get out of the pool.” Getting out of the pool was not an easy thing to do! I am short, 5 feet tall and I was only about 10or 11 years old and doing this so I was pretty short back then.

I remembered Mr. Bill putting his whistle in the corner of his mouth and telling us to start on his whistle. I vaguely remember that we would do three sets of 20 with a one minute rest between sets. It was brutal!

What I thought about today was the fact that I used to be able to do that. It was difficult, very difficult at times, but I could do it. I thought about that and the fact that I cannot do it at all now and I began to cry. I am crying is a write this post. My Mom hugged me and let me have my cry-out for a little while.

After I was dressed and ready for the day and sitting in my wheelchair, I continued to cry. I immediately could tell that it was another, “One of Dem days!”

Well, it WAS a good idea today because it goes well with an entire sleeve of Thin Mints! And yes, I ate them all! DON’T JUDGE ME!!!

We drove to Sean’s pictures in my car. We got home in the early evening. When we got home, Sean went into the house to bring my motorized wheelchair out to the car. I have figured out that it’s easier to be transferred directly into that chair and ride it into my house.

As he was bringing my chair down the ramp to the porch, this song came on the radio:

He opened the car door just before the refrain started. He lifted me from the car into my wheelchair And once I was seated in my chair he began to tilt it backward so I could slide in comfortably. Once I was in, I used the controls to sit back upright, I was shocked that he knew all of the words! He told me that, “[He] know[s] and that [he] is not even a U2 fan!”

I couldn’t believe the heresy that was coming out of his mouth! What?! NOT a U2 fan?! That is insane! I got situated in my chair with the seatbelt fastened end even though I was in shock, I asked him how he knew the words. He is looked at me and said, “You.”

As I drove myself across the sidewalk and up the walk way, he told me that this song remind him of our apartment (The second one) and the squiggly lines on the computer that would come on when the computer went to sleep and I was listening to music. I asked him what I was doing and he kind of shrugged and said that he didn’t know but maybe doing the dishes, cleaning, or doing homework. He asked if I was still in college when we are at our apartment. I told him that I was.

I only have a vague memory of doing the dishes or cleaning or even doing homework while listening to music but I like hearing that Sean has a memory of me doing those things and of this song. Even though he is a heretic in saying that he is NOT a U2 fan! They are my ultimate, favorite band and I cannot imagine anyone NOT being a fan!

I appreciated him knowing the words even if he is NOT a fan. I liked hearing that he knows these words because of me! I should have told him that he was welcome for me letting him learn the words but I was so shocked at the heresy he committed and saying that he is NOT a U2 fan!

I’ve been seeing various Fidelity commercials and they are set to an 80s song.

I was alive when this song came out but I was only four years old. Whenever I heard this song as I saw the Fidelity commercial, I thought of my two oldest brothers. My oldest is 9 1/2 years older than me and my second oldest brother is seven years older than me.

I obviously am reminded of the movie, Pretty in Pink, but I think of them because they were older than me when this song and movie came out. I have seen different versions of this commercial four or five times today and I think of them with fondness!